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N\u00e5r man bliver voksen, \u00e6ndres forholdet til ens for\u00e6ldre.<\/h3>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner column_margin=”default” column_direction=”default” column_direction_tablet=”default” column_direction_phone=”default” text_align=”left” row_position=”default” row_position_tablet=”inherit” row_position_phone=”inherit” overflow=”visible” pointer_events=”all”][vc_column_inner column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” column_element_direction_desktop=”default” column_element_spacing=”default” desktop_text_alignment=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_backdrop_filter=”none” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” overflow=”visible” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”1\/1″ 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Den naturlige adskillelse<\/h3>\n

Jo mere voksen man bliver, jo mindre bliver afh\u00e6ngigheden af ens for\u00e6ldre. Dine for\u00e6ldre f\u00e5r en anden betydning i dit liv, i takt med at du bliver mere selvst\u00e6ndig, og dine for\u00e6ldre gradvist giver slip.<\/p>\n

Denne proces sker som regel over en \u00e5rr\u00e6kke, og uden alvorligere problemer, selvom det nogle gange kan v\u00e6re f\u00f8lelsesm\u00e6ssigt kr\u00e6vende b\u00e5de for for\u00e6ldrene og for den unge.<\/p>\n

Det er naturligt at du oplever modsatte f\u00f8lelser i denne proces. Du kan muligvis b\u00e5de have et \u00f8nske at komme fri af dine for\u00e6ldre, og samtidig v\u00e6re bange for, hvad der vil ske. Dermed kan der opst\u00e5 en splittelse mellem at skulle v\u00e6lge det du kender i forvejen, eller fors\u00f8ge sig med noget nyt. Her kan du m\u00e5ske opleve f\u00f8lelser af usikkerhed, angst og frygt, men du kan ogs\u00e5 opleve det som sp\u00e6ndende og nervepirrende.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner column_margin=”default” column_direction=”default” column_direction_tablet=”default” column_direction_phone=”default” text_align=”left” row_position=”default” row_position_tablet=”inherit” row_position_phone=”inherit” overflow=”visible” pointer_events=”all”][vc_column_inner column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” column_element_direction_desktop=”default” column_element_spacing=”default” desktop_text_alignment=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_backdrop_filter=”none” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” overflow=”visible” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”1\/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” animation_type=”default” bg_image_animation=”none” border_type=”simple” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][vc_column_text css_animation=”none”]\n

N\u00e5r adskillelsen har problemer<\/h3>\n

Nogle gange kan der opst\u00e5 problemer i adskillelsesprocessen. Dette sker n\u00e5r det opleves s\u00e6rligt sv\u00e6rt for dig at g\u00f8re dig fri af dine for\u00e6ldre, eller n\u00e5r det opleves s\u00e6rligt sv\u00e6rt for dine for\u00e6ldre at give slip.<\/p>\n

M\u00e5ske oplever du at v\u00e6re for afh\u00e6ngig af dine for\u00e6ldre, og kan m\u00e6rke at det har konsekvenser i forhold til dine dr\u00f8mme, dine venner, din k\u00e6reste eller i forholdet til dine for\u00e6ldre.<\/p>\n

M\u00e5ske m\u00e6rker du at dine for\u00e6ldre udtrykker frygt eller angst, n\u00e5r du pr\u00f8ver at g\u00f8re noget selvst\u00e6ndigt og tage beslutninger p\u00e5 egen h\u00e5nd.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][\/vc_column][vc_column column_padding=”padding-3-percent” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” column_element_direction_desktop=”default” column_element_spacing=”default” desktop_text_alignment=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_backdrop_filter=”none” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” column_position=”default” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”1\/2″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” animation_type=”default” bg_image_animation=”none” border_type=”simple” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” column_padding_type=”default” gradient_type=”default”][vc_row_inner column_margin=”default” column_direction=”default” column_direction_tablet=”default” column_direction_phone=”default” text_align=”left” row_position=”default” row_position_tablet=”inherit” row_position_phone=”inherit” overflow=”visible” pointer_events=”all”][vc_column_inner column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” column_element_direction_desktop=”default” column_element_spacing=”default” desktop_text_alignment=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_backdrop_filter=”none” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” overflow=”visible” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”1\/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” animation_type=”default” bg_image_animation=”none” border_type=”simple” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][vc_column_text css_animation=”none”]\n

N\u00e5r man har f\u00e5et ansvaret for sine for\u00e6ldre<\/h3>\n

Den gradvise adskillelse kan ogs\u00e5 f\u00e5 problemer, hvis en eller begge for\u00e6ldre er afh\u00e6ngige af st\u00f8tte, omsorg eller hj\u00e6lp fra deres b\u00f8rn, f.eks. hvis der er psykisk sygdom eller misbrug.<\/p>\n

Her kan du have f\u00e5et en rolle i familien, hvor du f\u00f8ler dig ansvarlig for dine for\u00e6ldres velbefindende. Du bekymrer dig m\u00e5ske over, hvordan de vil klare sig, hvis du fastholder at leve dit eget liv. Du har eventuelt f\u00e5et et ansvar, som har v\u00e6ret alt for stort ift. din alder. Det kan f.eks v\u00e6re for mindre s\u00f8skende, hvor du f\u00f8ler du svigter dem ved at rejse v\u00e6k p\u00e5 uddannelse.<\/p>\n

Ved at pr\u00f8ve at leve dit eget liv, kan du opleve dine for\u00e6ldre som straffende og afvisende, hvilket kan medf\u00f8re, at du efterlades med skyldf\u00f8lelse.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner column_margin=”default” column_direction=”default” column_direction_tablet=”default” column_direction_phone=”default” text_align=”left” row_position=”default” row_position_tablet=”inherit” row_position_phone=”inherit” overflow=”visible” pointer_events=”all”][vc_column_inner column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” column_element_direction_desktop=”default” column_element_spacing=”default” desktop_text_alignment=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_backdrop_filter=”none” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” overflow=”visible” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”1\/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” animation_type=”default” bg_image_animation=”none” border_type=”simple” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][vc_column_text css_animation=”none”]\n

N\u00e5r for\u00e6ldre har store ambitioner p\u00e5 dine vegne<\/h3>\n

Nogle gange kan for\u00e6ldre have ting i deres egne liv, som de ikke fik opn\u00e5et, som de l\u00e6gger over p\u00e5 deres b\u00f8rn. Her kommer der et pres, h\u00f8je forventninger og en overdreven interesse i den unges liv.<\/p>\n

Det kan g\u00f8re det sv\u00e6rt for dig at finde ud af, hvad du vil med dit liv. Hvad din for\u00e6ldres ambition er, og hvad dine egne ambitioner er, og hvordan dit liv det skal leves.<\/p>\n

Vi tilbyder samtaler n\u00e5r problemerne er s\u00e5 indgribende, at de p\u00e5virker din uddannelse i negativ retning.<\/p>\n

Samtalerne kan hj\u00e6lpe dig til at f\u00e5 pr\u00e6ciseret problemerne og f\u00e5 afklaret \u00e5rsagerne til dem, og dermed give st\u00f8tte til at h\u00e5ndtere dem anderledes og mere hensigtsm\u00e6ssigt.<\/p>\n

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